QIDAKINGIN'S BLOG

The mental health of every individual superimposes any other form of wellbeing that has to do with humans. It is not a contestable fact that the brain controls all the actions of the human body (mind and soul inclusive)                 Mental health is a very important aspect of human existence that every well-meaning individual must always ensure to take care of at all times irrespective of the many possible distractions and disturbances been thrown around. It is important to ensure that the mind is well taken care of because the effect of its wellness or illness is not only limited to the personae alone but everyone around this person.                 Mental illness is a psychological state of mind where one is either mentally imbalanced, disturbed, derailed or occasionally out of control. It is a disorder that has to do with severa...

 We are who we are. We are like everyone of you. We are humans but humans with a different kind of mind. We are humans who keep things in our minds for long periods. We are humans who choose to be alone in the crowd. We are a rare kind though you can find us in multitude around the world. We know what it takes to want to express one's self but choose to be mute. We are who we are. We deal with oppression. We put up with being misconstrued . We are who we are. We are just like you, in boys, girls, youths and adults. We know what it takes to be misunderstood. We know that most of you don't and can't understand us but we are who we are. We sometimes go through emotional breakdown but laugh like we are okay. We know that everyone has a particular problem in life but we are too depressed in our thoughts to comprehend why we are like this. We choose to be open when we want to and we equally do the opposite when we can't help it. We usually have lot of things to say ...

                   I have strong vies on politics, religion, relationship, dating, marriage, education and society-related matters. I have opinions on basically every trending topic. I have point of views as regards the trivia, important, delicate and fragile topics that has to do with the populace. But I ask myself every time, must I air my views, opinions, point of views and/or notions?                 We are quick to open our mouths to join in on-going conversations, topics, debates and matters that are deemed urgent. This is quite a good thing to do but the bigger questions should be: what are we saying? Is it important we air our opinions? Are we being objective or subjective in our arguments, additions, subtractions or possible conclusions? How reasonable is what we are saying coupled with the fact that to what extent is what we are saying useful to the ...

                 One of the most important people in our lives are friends; they are the ones we go to when we need to talk, they are the ones that listen to our silence they are the ones we have the most memorable times of our lives with. Friends are essential elements of our being.                 Oftentimes, we are usually caught up in the middle of either fighting for our friendship with someone or letting go/ giving up on the relationship we have with a friend or friends. This usually comes as a result of several possible factors or causes. Among the factors that causes this confused state is misunderstanding between the friends, bad attitude of one or both of the friends, inability to settle disputes amicably between friends, lack of communication and most especially individual differences between the two people.        ...

Our first meeting was such that one would call inconsequential and unnoticed on my part. I literally didn’t even take full cognisance of your presence but after a year, I’m always eager to see you!                 I never believed we could be a thing not to talk of being something this great. I never saw this coming, the same way you never saw me coming and took me as a joke. When I first approached you in the real sense and we had our first conversation though virtual, I was so scared of messing up that I was fidgeting by just talking to you on the phone.                 I was sceptical about you agreeing to go on this wonderful romantic journey with me when I first professed my feelings for you. Back then, they were not this concrete, superficial and unwavering but I really wanted to be with you and only God knows why I chose you i...

It’s so funny and amazing how I have come to love the Law profession and legal matters judging by the fact that I never fancied nor liked the whole craze around legal studies all through secondary school and before higher institution. WHAT CHANGED? I became an admirer of the profession and its intricacies and complications after I started following series like SUITS and How To Get Away With Murder. These two wonderfully-set series would make a Law-neutral person become a Lawyer in few weeks (lol).                 You’ll wonder how a Law-neutral guy comes to love the Law profession. I guess you wouldn’t be able to wrap your head around the fact until you start following theses series. Asides the intricacies, complications and craze of the Law profession, it is quite a good representation of life’s interwoven mess that gets everyone tangled.            ...